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Bondage Role Play Ideas

Role Play Ideas For The Bedroom


Feeling a little bored in the bedroom? Here we will provide some tips to spice it up with some sexy Bondage roleplay ideas. In order to be in a position to do a lot of these role play ideas, you might need to consider getting a new lingerie outfit or some bondage toys. These will complete the role play and allow you to get more mentally and physically invested in the game. If you haven’t already, you might also want to team up with reading this article the Hells Couture Guide on how to dirty talk as well, just so you’re hitting the role playing aspect from both angles.

Role play is essentially a game of ‘let’s pretend’. You can choose to adopt a new persona into the bedroom and completely act out something that you are not. By being this person you might be in a position to let go of shyness and any self-consciousness that you might have as well, because you’re simply not being yourself. You will be the naughty school student trying to seduce their teacher, or you could be the wide eyed delivery person that’s walked in on something that they shouldn’t have. The choices for your erotic stories are endless.

There’s no easier way to spice up sex than with a little game of ‘let’s pretend.’ By adopting a new persona in the bedroom, you’re able to let go of any self-consciousness because, well, you weren’t yourself. You were the naughty schoolgirl or the wide-eyed deliveryman in an erotic story of your own creation.

1. Spy Games

Woman Tied Up On Chair For Sexy Roleplay Between Couples

 

If you’re a James Bond fan, or a hard-core action film fan then you might be familiar with the torture technique. The premise is remarkably simple, and it’s a brilliant way to get dressed up as well. Why not start off the night with some dinner where you can dress up to look like a high class spy complete with the dinner outfit or the tux.  You could also add to the scenario by using accents. Once you’ve decided on the aesthetics, the rest is simple. One individual is restrained to a chair whilst their partner alternates between pleasure and pain in order to make them talk. This incorporates bondage in a fun and exciting way, and allows you to use a variety of fun vibrators, sex toys, and pretty much whatever you have at your disposal. This type of scenario will involve a chair and ropes or cuffs depending on how to restrain your prisoner. It’s also exceptionally good for sensory play when using a blindfold or some form of a bondage mask to limit your prisoner’s vision.

2. Police Duties

Some people might think that role play has to be in the bedroom or a hotel. We’ve seen couples in movies role playing on TV. He might come down to the bar and pretend to pick up his partner who’s sitting there waiting at the bar for ‘someone’, a drink or two and they’re back up in the bedroom. But why limit yourself to the indoors? For the truly adventurous this role play might be beneficial. It might be a little elaborate for some, but you can use it as a basis to form other scenarios and ideas.

It might also help to be dressed as a police officer in this, and it might also be useful to be done when travelling or on a secluded road, or even at night. You will be pulling over your partner for a random police check and ask to see their license. From there they might be acting suspiciously, or they might not be very co-operative. Just to be safe, they might need to be removed from the car and handcuffed. Standard police procedures apply from this point, which includes frisking them to make sure that they’re not carrying any dangerous weapons, and be thorough in such a frisk lest you miss something that is important. Depending from there, you might decide whether they need to take a walk away from the car, or put them in your back seat for safe keeping and further ‘questioning’.

Not keen on the police idea? Why not head to your nearest adult store and look up other sexy costumes you could both role play in.

 

Couple Roleplaying With Police Officer Uniform And Restraints

3. The Great Prisoner Escape

This one is very similar to scenario number one, yet the roles are slightly reversed. It is often quite common in gay hardcore sex films and heterosexual storyline films. Maybe the prisoner has been wrongfully imprisoned, or maybe they’re trying to escape for a particular reason regardless, it’s the dangerous and cunning prisoner that is trying to escape. Use whatever means necessary to convince the guard to loosen up the restraints, or to even let you free for a walk. This scenario will involve a competent ability to dirty talk, and you’ll need to use your body to convince them that it’s in their best interests to let you free. Handcuffs and/or ropes are essential for this one. You could also use a variety of toys that would double as ‘weapons’ for a example a double ended dildo as a baton, or just get your hands on a baton that doubles as a dildo. Clothes, and the types of clothes might be important for setting up the aesthetics on this one as well.

 

More Bondage Role Play Ideas For Couples

4. Dr, Dr.

Nurses might not usually have to restrain their patients, but who knows what substances the patient has been taking lately. A little creativity is what makes this one so fun. They could be going in for an x-ray and need to be perfectly still, or they might be very loud and disruptive and therefore need to be bound and gagged to the bed. Medical play is also a very popular way to introduce pumping play into the relationship, and other such ‘medical’ devices. Once the patient has been restrained a thorough body examination is needed to determine the cause of the illness. Several different sensations can be used with this type of play from a sensual scrub down, to temperature play and seeing how the body reacts to various forms of stimulation. The possibilities with this one are endless.

This is a great one for all the medical fetishists out there. Speculums, sounding and all things metal will be the most useful in this one. One of my favourite items from the medical collection is the Wartenberg wheel, this great little device is fantastic for using for sensory deprivation and it really turns up the heat in sensory play. If you don’t get anything else from medical toys, then the wheel is the must have item.

5. The Repairman.

This might sound stereotypical, it might sound clichéd but it is truly one of the easiest forms of role play that you can do. You bathroom has a leak in it and your partner, who just happens to be the repair person, is the only one that can do the task on such short notice. Using the ‘tools’ in the belt, you can seduce the repair person and drive them crazy. This might also be an actual reason to get something repaired around the house as well. And if he seems a bit reluctant then you might just have to handcuff him to the table to be secure, just make sure you have a good quality lubricant on hand. Not only will you need it to lubricate the tools, but you might also want to lube up the repairman at the same time. Growls.

 

Hot Repairman Is One Of The More Common Sexual Fantasies And Role Plays

6. The Chef And The Staff

This is a really fun one to incorporate during dinner. The chef is worried about the dinner, and offers one of his staff the chance to taste it and provide feedback. This can go really sensual as you feed the staff member by hand with love and affection, or the staff member might insult the chef and need to atone for their sins. There’s a lot of variation here, and you can let your imagination run wild. If you want to kink it up – well chefs often need large tools to cook commercial quantities of food so you might actually be looking for sexual toys for the big boys.

7. TV Shenanigans

Do you and your partner watch a particular TV show and love it? Maybe you’re die-hard fans of the Big Bang Theory or something similar. It helps if it’s a TV show or a movie that you’re both fans of. What you’re essentially going to do in this scenario is to role play your favourite characters and get them to have hot, sweaty sex. There’s a lot of XXX porn parodies out there, so why not make your own?

These seven ideas are by no means exhaustive. Some of them might sound clichéd, they might be such an utter turn on. From there you can make them your own using whatever tools, tricks and tips that you have at your disposal. Just make sure that you’re having fun and that there’s a safe word In case you need to articulate something that’s beyond the role play scene.