You’ve read our article for best sex toys for BDSM beginners part one. This contained the first five sex toys we recommend. Now we come to the final five of the 10 best sex toys for BDSM Beginners. Let’s get into it.
10 Best Sex Toys for BDSM Beginners – Continued
6. Nipple clamps
This universal accessory for both men and women looks hot and excites the senses. The choice is huge – clamps with vibration, pendants (in the form of brushes, bells, crystals), weights, pumps and chains. Clamps are able to awaken sleeping erogenous zones on the chest, they decorate the body during erotic dance.
How to use nipple clamps
- Wear miniature accessories under your clothes and demonstrate to your partner.
- Vibration clamps open breast receptivity. Use them during lovemaking.
- Vary the degree of nipple compression by loosening or tightening the adjusting screw.
- Clamps with rings are connected with handcuffs or collar by light chains.
Tips for nipple clamps use
For BDSM beginners we recommend to purchase clamps with soft latex pads – they are the least traumatic. Any objects that squeeze blood flow should not be left on the nipples for more than 20 minutes, as it could lead to a violation of blood supply and sensitivity loss. Do not try to jerk off the clamps or abruptly pull on the chain. Always remember that the principle of safety lies at the heart of BDSM play.
7. Tape for binding
Soft wide tape is used instead of handcuffs or for total restraint during mummification. The durable synthetic tape holds well, does not stick to hair and can be removed painlessly without leaving marks. A special intimate tape can be used on face skin and genitals. Vibrant colors will create a fetish look.
How to use the tape for binding
- Tie your partner’s arms and/or legs, fix your partner in unusual sex position.
- Several tape layers will replace the eye mask.
- Fully wrap your partner’s body, deny the opportunity to move.
- Stick small pieces of tape on your breasts and genitals. Your fetish party outfit is ready.
Tips for tape for binding use
Choose a wide (at least 5 cm) tape. It will not twist and will not cut into the skin during active movements. Do not replace the gag with tape. Slight nose breathing troubles are extremely dangerous for partner whose mouth is tightly sealed.
8. Gynecological speculum
A specific device for a frank medical examination will not be appreciated by every girl, but this toy will give a courageous couple an unforgettable experience. Mirrors are made of hypoallergenic materials: steel and plastic and have rounded edges. Their introduction and use as a tool for amorous pleasures is absolutely safe. This is medical sex play fetish and it allows to bring into action new scenarios.
How to use gynecological speculum
- Relax your partner with erotic massage. Introduction of the instrument will be unpleasant in case the girl is tense.
- Create an appropriate environment, complement the image for a medical play with other accessories such suit, gloves, etc.
- For better glide, apply lubricant to the outside of the expander flaps.
- During examination, adjust the degree of vaginal dilatation with the fixing screw.
- Try further stimulating your partner’s cervix with your fingers or a vibrator while the mirror is open.
Tips for gynecological speculum use
Your girl may not be ready to let you go “that deep”. To gently prepare your partner for the mirror, practice manual stimulation first. Use high-quality, firm-textured lubricants for a comfortable insertion.
9. Bondage Kits
Sex product manufacturers make sets at their discretion. Most often, the sets include collar, handcuffs, gag, whip or flogger, dildo or butt plug. Set of BDSM devices allows you to to deep immediately into the world of unknown pleasures and to try various scenarios in bed. Buying a bondage kit is less expensive, it costs less than the devices separately.
How to Use Bondage Kits
- Start using individual devices in the process of your usual love pleasures.
- Give your partner a full session with bondage, blindfold and flogging.
- Switch roles and experience what it is like to be a dominant and submissive.
- Ask your partner to wear a collar or anal plug discreetly under clothing in a crowded place.
Tips for BDSM devices use
Huge all-in-one sets are very handy. The set allows you to determine your preferences and to move in a chosen direction, be it sadism, humiliation, or a combination of both. Pay attention to the quality and strength of the materials from which the items are made.
10. Mini vibrator
Miniature devices with a powerful motor look nothing like it giant realistic brothers. Mini vibrator fits easily into a handbag, keeps you company while traveling, and its neutral shape does not evoke associations with sex toys. However, such babies know how to surprise with strong vibration and variability of application.
How to use mini vibrator
- Use vibro finger attachment, stimulate your partner’s clitoris or anus during vaginal penetration.
- A vibrating egg is perfect for for penis and scrotum fussing. Push vibrator to the cheek in the process of oral stimulation. Orgasm is guaranteed.
- Massage your partner’s breasts, neck, groin in search of new erogenous zones.
- Vibrators are suitable for discreet long wearing.
- Tease your tied partner with a vibrating toy, increase his arousal without orgasm.
- Or vice versa, arrange torture with multiple orgasms without interruption.
Tips for mini vibrator use
This small vibrating accessory is perfect for beginners in adult products. When choosing, do not chase the number of speeds, you will still turn on 2 – 3 favorites. Do not go for the most powerful model, for many people excessively intense vibration seems ticklish or unpleasant.
Every couple should try BDSM play.
You don’t have to hurt, you can experiment with psychological dominance and submission. It is interesting to dress up in costumes, to try on the role of subordinate or dominant.
Accessories only complement the invented scenarios, help to bring them to life. Many of the 10 BDSM sex toys are suitable for vanilla sex as well. And just make the intimacy a little more spicy and attractive.